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Once upon a time in America
Update: One good thing to come out of this long primary is that I’ve developed a new network and found some women whose work I admire greatly. One of them is the woman who posts as Frenchdoc at Corrente. She said just exactly what I’ve been thinking:
I don’t know about you guys, but I feel like a battered woman, and tonight is the night I decided to walk away and not look back.
Tomorrow, if HRC is still in the race, I’m contributing as much as I can.
I might back off the battered a bit but definitely abused and expected to keep quiet about it and put a good face on things for the good of the party.
The news media and pundits gave us 8 years of George W. Bush and now they’re trying once again to pick our president. They played Obama’s game last night, refusing to call Indiana for Clinton until after midnight and robbing her of the chance to make a primetime speech, giving Gary’s mayor a chance to grandstand and hold votes hostage, calling Obama’s win in North Carolina a loss for Clinton when she was never expected to win in North Carolina. And once again calling and calling and calling for her to drop out because she just can’t possibly win.
I quote Eric Boehlert of MediaMatters:
Here’s another first: the press’s unique push to get a competitive White House hopeful to drop out of the race. It’s unprecedented.
Looking back through modern U.S. campaigns, there’s simply no media model for so many members of the press to try to drive a competitive candidate from the field while the primary season is still unfolding.
Why am I so angry? Because perfectly “respectable” magazines print dreck like this from Michael Wolf:
The Hillary story is—and how could it not be?—largely a sexual one. This is not so much a sexist view as a sexualist view: What’s up here? What’s the unsaid saying? What’s the vibe? Although it’s not discussed in reputable commentary, it’s discussed by everyone else: so what exactly is the thing with Hillary and sex, with the consensus being that she simply must not have it (at least not with her husband; there are, on the other hand, the various conspiracy scenarios of whom else she might have had it with). It’s partly around this consensus view of her not having sex that people support her or resist her. She’s the special-interest candidate of older women—the post-sexual set. She’s resisted by others (including older women who don’t see themselves as part of the post-sexual set) who see her as either frigid or sexually shunned—they turn from her inhibitions and her pain.
Susie Madrak calls this the dry pussy demographic and responds in the only reasonable way:
Well, for starters, this is right in line with my theory that the men who really, really hate Hillary Clinton are men with Serious Mother Issues. Because it’s not just about the idea of Mommy having sex (”Not MY mother! No way!), it’s this sexually immature (not to mention shallow) illusion that only firm, tight, photogenic youngsters are worthy sexual beings.
Honey, you have no idea.
Obviously Vanity Fair has no idea, being the magazine that has given us the Lolita posturings of Miley Cyrus so Humbert Humbert aka Michael Wolf can drool over her.
I have been chided for not being fair to Obama, but in my view, I am being fair to Obama. I’ve said what it will take for me to vote for him and one of the things is for him to speak out against the sexism and politics of personal destruction that is being waged against his DEMOCRATIC opponent.
Update 2: For the record, I agree with this analysis from Anglachel:
…I don’t consider [African American] support of Obama to be pernicious. Electorally frustrating, yes, but, unlike the Hillary Haters who want to attribute the worst possible motives to her supporters, I don’t think that is so of the majority Obama’s black supporters. They see an opportunity to vote for a candidate who reflects them, and they will do so, no matter the odds. Given my unwavering support of Hillary despite the long nomination odds, I can’t really cry foul on someone else’s supporters who feel just as strongly as I do. Obama’s campaign is certainly doing pernicious race-baiting, but mostly to initimidate critics and shame wavering white voters. I don’t think it’s earning him more than a few slivers of votes from the [African American] community, and is probably costing him more votes on the whole when white attrition is counted against black gains.
It is not the black community that is crying racism against the Clintons or against Hillary Clinton’s supporters, as far as I can see. They are voting for their favorite son.
- The voters, not the press, pick the winner
- Character assassination
- Clinton’s speech
- The race card
- Why I remain angry…
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4 Comments
1. Max replies at 8th May 2008, 11:58 am :
Watching the election returns Indiana state map by county, looked like a red/blue election. The country folk support HRC, Ohio, Pennsylvania the same thing. I am not all that interested in a Candidate that doesn’t really represent the country folk (blue collar working class). It looks as if the party will yet put another on the ticket in the mold of Kerry. The working class are a prideful people, raise their families for success, better themselves go to church contribute to their communities. To me the Democratic party seems to have been hi-jacked by some entity.
Hillary has been through the wringer and we all know her.
Though most of us would like for the Iraq war to never happened, I feel it does need to be dealt with properly now, the U.S. has that obligation.
2. Tommy replies at 9th May 2008, 8:17 am :
They call us idiots and racists and ask us why the stupid cow just won’t quit and then they say, well, you better vote for Obama in November cuz if we get four more years of Bush in the form of McCain we’re taking our frustrations out on your shriveled old butts.
So it’s abuse coupled with threats and it is making me boiling mad. I woke up at 4:15 this morning and lay in bed fuming until 5:30. Someone might say I need to take a chill pill but that’s just more of the same sit down shut up and pull the lever we put in your hands bullshit.
3. sherry replies at 9th May 2008, 11:47 am :
Tommy, my dear, I suggested you read Susan Faludi’s op-ed in today’s NYTimes and take heart. Fight passionately for what you believe in but don’t lose sleep over politics. Not unless you’re sitting up until 1:30 a.m. to see the outcome of a primary.
And think of this, whatever may be the outcome of this election, Senator Clinton is changing the face of U.S. politics just as much as is Senator Obama.
4. sherry replies at 10th May 2008, 12:37 pm :
Max, I think the entity that has taken over the Democratic party is the Republican party. I am an old Roosevelt liberal and from where I stand, Barack Obama is promising to help the Republicans continue to do away with the New Deal. I think that’s probably because his young voters want it that way. I think they see themselves as burdened by social programs that support the aging baby boomers. I think they’re affluent and think capitolism is going to keep them that way.
People over 65 are not voting for Barack Obama.
So I may be wrong in being so frustrated that the romance of Obama has kept us from looking at his issues. His issues may be just what his voters want. That and the idea that they don’t want to have to factor in the working class, which they associate with conservative social attitudes and racism.
But I think we’re headed into economic hard times and attitudes may change.
A blogger known as vastleft over at Corrente highlighted this quote from Ian Walsh:
I’m not so sure about the Supreme Court. Obama has made soothing noises to the right about that and he did plan to vote for Roberts.
Still…
I console myself with the fact that Hillary Clinton has shown that women can run a strong race for the presidency and win over white men in spite of all the sexist nonsense put out by the so-called pundits. Also that she has been able to by-pass the media somewhat and take her message directly to the voters. I really am tired of having the chattering classes pick our presidents.
At any rate, in spite of predictions that she’s ruining her legacy, I think she will emerge from all of this a strong force in the national dialogue, win or lose.
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